Fluid is suctioned from the hollow organs with an instrument called a trocar, then a high-index (very strong) fluid is placed into the cavity and the incision is closed with a small circular plastic button like device referred to as a trocar button. The tubes are then removed, the vein and artery tied off and the incision is sutured. The tissue will begin to firm and take on a rosy appearance, which is an excellent indication of adequate distribution and a successful embalming. The body is vigorously massaged with a soapy sponge to help facilitate drainage and distribution of embalming fluid. As the embalming fluid is pushed through the arterial system, the blood is forced out through the jugular vein.

The machine is switched on and the fluid begins to move through the hose, through the arterial tube and into the body. These knobs are adjusted differently during embalming for each case to create the optimum rate of injection for the body. The embalming machine is then adjusted to regulate pressure (the force of the fluid) and rate of flow (speed of the fluid). The hose, connected to the embalming machine, is then connected to the arterial tube directed towards the heart. A drain tube, or angled forceps, is also placed in the vein to facilitate drainage of blood. Arterial tubes are placed in the artery (one is directed towards the heart, while the other is directed towards the head). From there, we search for the common carotid artery and internal jugular vein. Typically, we use a scalpel to make a small incision near the right collarbone. I position the hands one over the other, wash the body, cover the genitals (to preserve modesty) and prepare the tools I will need to embalm. Next, I gently flex the arms, legs and fingers to relieve the muscle tension or stiffness of rigor mortis. Setting the features involves closing the eyes and mouth and placing cotton in the mouth to give the person a more natural expression.

I mix the fluids accordingly and begin to set the features. Every case is different and requires a special combination of fluids (which are mixed according to the height, weight and physical conditions of the deceased). I suit up in personal protective equipment (a gown, apron, shoe covers, gloves etc) and evaluate the person to decide how I will proceed. My boss calls me, and I arrive at the funeral home shortly after the deceased has been taken into our care to begin the embalming process.

Since I'm a trade embalmer, I don't handle the first call or transport of a deceased person (although I've previously done both). Typically, my day begins when someone dies.

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